Like it or not, most people judge us by our past. By what we have done in the past, not what we are in present. Many people misunderstood us by something we had done and regret in the past. And that's people. Society. We only could tolerate that and live day by day trying to prove they're wrong.
The question is, is some one's past really that important as a judgement? We can't avoid that our past made who we are now, but not everyone is their past now. We live in the present, and if you judge someone only by his/her past then it'll only means you're the one who still live in the past.
Not to be naive, I did make stupid decisions, stupid actions, said stupid words and what I did did hurt someone, but what's past is past. I don't live there anymore, well I'm proud to say, cause of what I did, I could see clearer now, and know what's best for my self.
And that's what I think about my past. Something I need to learn, my past is my lesson, and if i wasn't so reckless back then, I wouldn't be where I am now. I wouldn't be someone who thinks like now. I'd still be someone who freaking just live the moment.
“Everyone has a past, but that's just it--it's in the past. You can learn from it, but you can't change it.”-Nicholas Spark
One of my best friends slap me in the face by saying:
Well back to the first question, what I could say don't freaking judge someone just by what he/she done in the past."We're grown ups now. We couldn't just do something without thinking what will it affects to us in the future"-Diandra Alika
Not everyone you think is a saint never did something wrong in their life. And all the sinner still has a future. God, it's not that I'm saying the past it's not important. Just a life thought, I came to a conclusion where what I see is, yes the past can tells you a lot about a person, yes the past could affect on the person now, but judging someone just by his/her past is not right.
"Every Saint has a past, and Every Sinner has a future"- Oscar Wilde
Honey, there's more to everyone than just their past. And in loving someone, go be with someone who doesn't judge you for your past, love you for what you are now and going to make you a better person in the future.